Who is Tony Bochene

Free lance journalist, survivalist, big game archery hunter, sportsman, small aircraft pilot, gun collector, long time mountain search and rescue team member, career outdoorsman, Tony Bochene describes himself as; “A self prescribed social mutant who has simply refused to evolve. A caveman, skillfully pretending to be a civilized human being.”

Mr. Bochene has been an award winning outdoor writer and photojournalist for over 30 years, specializing in adrenaline sports and mountaineering expeditions. When it comes to foreign romance he not only talks the talk but he definitely walks the walk. Over thirty years ago he flew to the Philippines to marry a young Filipina mail order bride he knew for only five days, to rescue her from the crumbling Marcos regime because he thought her country would fall to the communists.

Are foreign women really different than american ladies?

Oh hell YES!
That’s what this whole fuss is about. Even in the worst global economic crisis in our lifetime, amazingly, we are in the midst of an international dating revolution the likes of which I’ve never seen, and I’ve been in this game for over 25 years. Well now I’m going to tell you why I think so many men are suddenly turning to foreign women. Not only are foreign women ten times better than anything you’ll find in the states, but there are millions more of them! Yes I said millions. And guess what, they like us barbaric unsophisticated heathens just the way we are. With all our male imperfections intact. I’m serious, there’s absolutely no comparison between most foreign women and selfish contrary overly complicated frumpty-dumpty American babes, and you’ll see that the moment you step off a plane in one of the countries I’ve suggested you visit. 

Electronic Women

She's beautiful, she's sexy and slender, and she's right there in front of you. Or at least it seems that way. Mostly thanks to the incredible pixel quality of that new computer screen you got at Best Buy. And she appears immediately drawn to you, she hangs on your every word, she seems to like you, at least on the surface. 

All warm and friendly, and willing....

But is she real?

Can I meet a decent honest foreign woman online?

The simple answer? Absolutely! Think about it, these days there are literally hundreds of thousands of foreign women, on hundreds of different websites, aggressively marketing themselves to foreign men. So logistically speaking it would be virtually impossible for ALL of these ladies to be scammers. Right? I know it may seem that way sometimes, that every other foreign lady you meet online these days is pushing you to send her money for English classes, or buy her baby’s corrective shoes, or pay for her grandmother’s life threatening brain surgery, all the while dousing you with false affection and swearing that you are the perfect man for her… but ironically at the same time stubbornly refusing to give you something as totally harmless as her personal contact information. With her claiming that; “It isn’t safe, or proper” Wait a minute, let me make sure I’ve got this straight, you’re on a supposed foreign dating website, and it’s ok for the women to pose publicly in their underwear to attract foreign men, but it’s not ok for them to give you personal contact information? You know, so you can actually arrange a date??? Hogwash! I would instantly dump that lady and run the other way as fast as you can. But all this considered I assure you there are still tons of good girls to be found online. However there is a catch, and it’s a big one. Especially when you consider the outrageous cost of online communication on most these sites.